* Four People You Will Meet in Life *

* Four People You Will Meet in Life *
There're four people you will meet in life. Life is the process of finding love; every person willneed to find four people in their life.
First person is you,
Second person is the one youlove most,
Third person is the one who love youmost,
And the fourth is the one you spend the restof your life with.

In life, firstly you will meet with the one you lovemost, and learn how love feels. Because you know how love feels, so you can find the person who loves you most. When you have experienced the feeling of loving others and being loved, you will then know what it is you need most. Then you willfind the person who is most suitable for you, to beable to spend the rest of your life with.

Sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person.
The one you love most doesn't love you. The one,who love you most, is never the one you love most.And the one you spend your life with, is never the one you love most or the one who love you most. He is just the person who happens to be at theright place at the right time.

Which person are you in other people's life?
No person will purposely have a change of heart. At the point in time when he loves you, he really loves you. But when he doesn't love you anymore,he really doesn't love you anymore. When he lovesyou, he can't pretend that he doesn't. Same goes,when he loves you no more, there's no way he can pretend he loves you.
When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you. You must ask yourself if you still lovehim, If you also don't love him anymore, do not keep him just to save your pride. If you still love him, you should wish him happiness, and hopethat he will be with the one he loves most, not stophim from it. If you stop him from finding truehappiness with the one he loves, it shows youalready don't love him, And if you don't love him,what rights do you have to blame him for a changeof heart?

Love is not possessive, If you like the moon, you can't just take it down and put it in your basin, But the moonlight still shines upon you. In other words,when you love a person, you can use another method of possessing the person. Let him become a permanent memory in you life. If you really love aperson, you must love him for what he is. Love him for his good points, and the bad, You can't wish forhim to become like what you like him to be justbecause you love him. If he can't change to be come what you like him to be, you don't love him anymore.

When you really love a person, you cannot find areason why you love him, You only know that no matter when and where, good mood or bad mood,you will wish to have this person be with you. Real love is when two people can go through the toughest problems without asking for promises or listing criterias. In a relationship, you have to put in effort and give in at times, not always be on the receiving end. Being away from each other is atype of test, If the relationship isn't strong, then you can only admit defeat. Real love will never become hate.

When two people are in love, They love to ask each other to swear, to make promises. Why do they ask each other to swear and promise? Because they don't trust each other, they don't trust their lover. These swear and promises are useless; Till the sky falls, till the ocean dry, my love for you will never change! We all know that the sky will never fall; the ocean will never dry, Even ifit does happen, are we still alive by then?

Be careful when making promises; don't make promises that you cannot keep. Swear by things that can never happen, because it can never happen, so no harm just saying it casually. Remember, swearing by things that can never happen are the most touching!! In a relationship,what you say is one thing, but what you do is another; The one saying, doesn't believe; the one listening, also doesn't believe.

NB: Those words really have a great great meaning and too easy to be written
but it's absolutely difficult to do..